CIBC: thanks for the new more natural advertising pictures. They look more genuine than artificial ads of “inclusion and diversity”

Cartoon pictures taken from the Internet

Bambi has earlier posts about the Canadian Imperial Bank of Commerce (CIBC) and the Deutsche Bank and the obsession with diversity. They are shown below, if you are interested in reading them. Today, she would like to share a positive impression and interaction she had yesterday at a branch of the CIBC in the nearby province of Nova Scotia.

Unfortunately, Bambi does not have a picture of the promotional material in question, which is decorating the wall of this branch. She could not find it online for you. However, all what it shows, if Bambi recalls well, is a senior woman with a cute Golden Retriever. While doing her transaction with the friendly and competent teller, Bambi pointed to the picture at one point. She made a comment about the cute dog. Being a big mouth sometimes, she could not help not to add something like the following: Bravo for this beautiful natural picture. Despite the good intentions, such pictures are much nicer because they are more natural. Not pushing to include in the shot someone with a darker skin or an adult, or even a kid, with a veil to show someone who would be Muslim or Arab or whatever (like in the older post below).

Following the visit to this bank and town, Bambi returned home with hope for more common sense, balance, and authenticity, in our approach to diversity in life. In her mind, anyone of this bank’s customers can be touched by a cute dog, like a Golden Retriever, or that lady in the picture could have been Bambi’s mom or grand-mother [had Bambi been younger : )]. Yes, she related to her as an aging human being. She also identified with her as a woman perhaps at a different stage of her life (Bambi would be there too in a few years, if she lives until then). She also saw in her another fellow customer or Canadian citizen. Bambi did not care to know if that lady had blue or black eyes. Actually, she cannot remember that detail now. Same for her skin colour, white hair, darker or red hair, hat or veil or maybe just a nice hairstyle.

All what Bambi liked was the authenticity of the picture. With the latter, she could relate. With the latter, she also aspires to identify with hopefully until her last breath. Just being whom we are and not being “used” in a picture or in/by a movement, whether to score a point or to silence a different point of view.

To conclude this post, well done CIBC. Please keep it up. Today that lady may or may have not looked like Bambi’s mom. Tomorrow, it may be more like her. Perhaps with a tanned or a black skin. Perhaps with more weight on. Perhaps with a veil or a cross. Perhaps this lady’s spouse will also join her in the picture. He may have a kippah on his head. He may have a “Tarboush” (Lebanese traditional hat for men). He may be totally bald. If he seems authentic, she will also say: Welcome and thank you for this advertising picture!

Mr. Georges Wassouf’s new song: Is their anything more moving than the love of a father for his late son?

On January 7, Bambi had a post of solidarity with singer Georges Wassouf whose heart was shattered in pieces when his son Wadiw died after a surgery.

Today, totally randomly, Bambi came across a song by the father for his son. What a heart-breaking yet beautiful tribute melody. If Bambi recalls well from a chat with her dad two months ago, Mr. Georges Wassouf recovered from a life-threatening vascular event (before his loss); and here he is singing again to honour his late son with his unique voice.

If you are interested, you may find the song below. The lyrics are in Arabic, but the emotions of sorrow are universal. The writer is Mr. Khaled Tag Eldeen, the composer is Mr. Mohamed Yehia, and the arranger is Mr. Zezo Farouk.

The YouTube video features moving family pictures where we can see Mr. Wadiw Wassouf, as a baby. We can appreciate the father-son love, which shows in their eyes, smiles, and the way they touch or hug each other. It is also moving to watch all the other beautiful family pictures.

Thanks to Mr. Georges Wassouf’s colleagues for their support. May Son Wadiw ‘s memory be eternal. May music contribute to soothe his dad’s aching soul ❤️.

Aimer/To love…

Every day is meant to love and be loved.

Love with a big L or… with a smaller one.

In our minds, some days like this one may be more associated with love.

Sadly, that same day meant for love is also associated with hatred. Bambi is thinking of a certain political assassination, which also killed many innocent citizens in Beirut; as usual with impunity.

However, despite criminality, love remains the most powerful force that can move hearts… and perhaps even mountains. Yes, love in all its forms and shapes, from a healthy self-respect/love to true romantic love, whether it lasts a season or a lifetime, to love of the world and ALL its people… whether we agree with their ideological or political views or not.

If she may, and even if they are sleeping right now, Bambi would like to offer this song to her mom and dad. She wants to thank them for giving her (and her siblings) life, inspiration, continuous support, and especially love.

Happy Valentine’s Day to all of you, dear readers ❤️. Thank you for visiting this blog, whether silently or with your enriching comments.

Welcome, Dino!

Dear Roula et al.:

You may not believe it, but Bambi had in mind to surprise you with a post meant to welcome little “Dino” into your family (and in our larger one too).

Well, just before going to sleep now, she thought of reading the news from the Middle East. While doing so, she came across your Tweet Roula about Dino and it is in English [no need for any translation :)]!

Is there anything cuter than Dino?! Bambi fell in love with him and she looks forward to meeting him one day [OK minus any allergies :)].

She trusts he will bring you love and fun moments.

She knows you will bring him safety, food and, much love.

As for your dear Kayla, please trust that she also remains alive in Bambi’s memory since her earlier post about her (shown further below)❤️.

To conclude this brief post on a rather light note, Bambi would like to offer Dino the Lambada dance by a cat, along with two songs: (1) a Lebanese-Arabic one also about a cat [“Bissi”] called “Sissi“; and (2) a famous French kids’ song entitled “C’est la mère Michel qui a perdu son chat” : )!

Do you cultivate self-love?

Bambi has always been fascinated by those declared international or national days.

Some days are useful to raise awareness or to bring meaning into our daily lives.

Other days may seem senseless or odd to the point of becoming more than funny.

Well, today is “Self-love Day” and it falls on the day preceding Love (or Valentine’s) Day.

Self-love is all about self-respect and self-kindness.

It is surely a sign of a healthy relationship with oneself, which is essential to all relationships in life, whether romantic, friendly, familial, professional, etc.

It is the basis and the precursor. It is the start and it is the end… in the sense that we come into the world alone and we leave it alone, even if are surrounded by a tribe of loved ones.

Thus, we have an interest in being in good terms with ourselves all our lives. Getting to know and being kind with ourselves. This is essential across all the seasons of our journeys. Sometimes, perhaps in more vulnerable seasons like in grief, it may become critical, if not urgent for our survival, sanity, and continuous personal growth, to re-connect with oneself. Yes, this means putting ourselves first, being true with oneself, and re-cultivating (and enjoying!) self-love, if we lost track of it. At times, it may require us to even take baby steps to re-learn how to self-love.

Tonight, before going to sleep, Bambi wants to offer herself a musical treat. Yes, remember today is all about self-love :). One of her pleasures in life is to listen to Mr. Kendji Girac. So, she will self-indulge. However, because she cannot help not to care for you too dear readers, she will also offer you this musical moment. Yes, it is a melody meant to all of us, perhaps especially to women. Indeed, the song is called “Vous les femmes” [“You Women”]. It is originally by Mr. Julio Iglesias. Mr. Girac did a unique and lovely interpretation of it. Bambi hopes you will enjoy it!

Ms. Whitney Houston: on this day, 11 years ago, she left our world

May Ms. Houston’s memory be eternal.
Her picture was taken from the internet (Bet.com)

Bambi does not want this day to end without paying tribute to the late and GREAT American singer and actress, Ms. Whitney Houston (https://bit.ly/3XoctOK). She has touched so many lives, around the world, with her incredible voice, talent, life, and… death. What a legacy, including international charities like the Whitney Houston Foundation for Children. Thank you and may your memory be eternal, Ms. Houston.

Ms. Abeer Nehme with the National Arab Orchestra: Is there anything simpler and more beautiful than a butterfly interacting with a lily [“Frashay w Zahra”]?

A picture taken from the internet

Despite its absurdity, or even cruelty at times, life is essentially beautiful.

Whether in its immensity or in its little tiny moments, life with all its forms, shapes, and species is simply magical.

This songs describes a moment in nature between a butterfly and a lily, along with a romantic narrative, by the Lebanese song writer/singer Mr. Zaki Nassif. May his memory be eternal; thanks to the National Arab Orchestra and Ms. Abeer Nehme for this lovely tribute.

If you are interested in the English translation of the Lebanese-Arabic lyrics, you can find them following the song. Today, Bambi’s faithful friend was unavailable (yes, she is talking about that same dear Mr. Google Translate!). She replaced him to the best of her capacity. She did so with the help of the internet in general.

“Pick me the sweetest flower
Oh butterfly, take me away
A flower that suits the blonde
A clip/decoration for her hair
A flower that suits the blonde
A decoration/clip for her hair
Pure, sweet, sweeter than a child’s laughter

And let the lily shout to the butterfly, from its heart, a singing poem
And let the bird do the translation and the tweeting
And the crack of dawn rhythms to the butterfly a beautiful note on its cords
Pick me the sweetest flower
Oh butterfly, take me away
A flower that suits the blonde
A decoration/clip for her hair
A flower that suits the blonde
A decoration/clip for her hair

Pure marble colour and tales of fire
And the soil of the brown inventory and the old snow
It is the dream of the green valley and the glory of the bay leaf
And if I know how to describe more than I tell you to tell me, oh
Pick me the sweetest flower
Oh butterfly, take me away
A flower that suits the blonde
A decoration/clip for her hair
A flower that suits the blonde
A decoration/clip for her hair
Pure marble colour and tales of fire
And the soil of the brown inventory and the old snow
It is the dream of the green valley and the glory of the bay leaf
.”

Ms. Natasha St-Pier: Happy Birthday and thank you for your beautiful “Cantique des Cantiques” [Song of the Songs]!

Today is Ms. Natasha St-Pier’s birthday. For those who do not know her, she is a GREAT international, France-based, Canadian singer who was born in Bathurst, New Brunswick. Happy Birthday to her.

Usually, on birthdays, we offer gifts to those who are celebrating. Well, this post will do the exact opposite: Bambi will share with you Ms. St-Pier’s gift to all of us. The song was produced in 2018, but the musically outdated Bambi only discovered it now before going to sleep. The French lyrics and music are by Mr. Thomas Pouzin and Mr. Benjamin Pouzin, respectively. What a soothing treat to the ears and a joy to the soul.

Last but not least, Bambi would like to offer this song to you Valérie with much love ❤️, if you happen to be reading this post by any chance. Please consider it as coming from both her and and her spouse who joins her in saying: may your dear sister’s memory be eternal… Trust that her memory will forever be alive in Bambi’s heart, along with continuous gratitude for her humanity and generosity. Yes, as a deer as well as a human being, Bambi has been honoured to receive her support ❤️!

Life can be too cruel and absurd

Today, the world’s news seem to be TOO tragic in addition to being senseless.

First, internationally, the Turkey-Syria earthquake deaths passes 12,000 (https://bit.ly/3IbDHUy). Can you imagine?! This is double the population of Bambi’s small town when it is filled to its full capacity. Once again, may everyone’s memory be eternal.

Some people are being rescued even after 48 hours, including 3 Lebanese people today (https://bit.ly/40ArtMl), thank Goodness. Bravo to all those helping hands. Bless them all.

One of the most moving stories that Bambi has ever heard of, in her entire life thus far, is this newborn whose mom gave birth to her under the rubble. Yes, she brought her to life… and sadly died after that (https://bit.ly/3lc5ESU). When the rescuers found the “baby-miracle“, as some called her, she was still attached to her DEAD mother’s umbilical cord :(. Not only that, this cute little baby girl is now the sole survivor of her entire family. Can you imagine?

Yes, that is what is happening abroad, miles away from us, yet we are deeply touched by this human tragedy affecting SO many men, women, and kids in such a brutal way.

This being said, the second piece of SHOCKING news comes to us from Laval in the province of Québec, Canada. Yes, there a man apparently deliberately crashed a bus at a daycare this morning. He was charged with first-degree murder as two children died and 6 others were injured (https://bit.ly/3RISzg0). Bambi cannot even dare to imagine one drop of the worries and then sadly of the GRIEF of the parents, children, daycare workers, neighbours, etc. Why did those kids lose their lives? So many whys that may not find an answer. Obviously a thorough investigation is needed to try to understand why did this man do what he did. Why did he lose his mind to that extent?

According to City News Everywhere (https://bit.ly/3DVzWQy), the 51-year-old bus driver worked with the Société de transport de Laval (STL). According to the same source, “a neighbour to the daycare said he rushed over to the scene of the crash. Hamdi Benchaabane told reporters children were stuck under the bus, and that he and three parents managed to subdue the driver, who he said had stepped out of the bus, removed all his clothing and started screaming”. Bambi listened to the interview Mr. Benchaabane spontaneously gave to reporters on the street on different French-speaking media. She is speechless… like everyone else on the streets of this neighbourhood of Laval, in Québec, across Canada, and wherever the news of this senseless tragedy will travel.

How do you cope with this, as a parent? As a child? As a daycare educator? As a bus driver working for the same company? As a client? As anyone of us, citizens and politicians? This is not a natural earthquake. This is someone who lost his mind and we do not know if that man would be fit to stand trial, as explained by Dr. Gilles Chamberland, a psychiatrist at the “l’Institut national de psychiatrie légale Philippe-Pinel” (https://bit.ly/3Yj6Rqn).

To end this post, and if she may, Bambi will keep thinking about everyone affected by the earthquake in both Turkey and Syria. If she may, she would like to send her heart to the families of the two children who died today in their own daycare as well as to the other six injured kids; all out of danger now, as per the media links above, thank Goodness. By extension, Bambi’s heart also goes to ALL the families of young children. Her heart also goes to ALL the kids and their educators wherever they are, whomever they are. She has no word and even no song. Nothing. She will only have a prayer for them before closing her eyes to sleep. This is a promise that she is eager to honour.