A little wink to Haiti!

While waiting for her spouse in the car the other day, Bambi decided to listen to an old CD called “Ensemble pour Haiti” [“Together for Haiti”]. This CD was produced by a telethon relief concert, held by artists from Québec, in support of those affected by the 2010 Haiti earthquake.

One of the songs that Bambi listened to (and she cannot stop singing now!) was the national anthem of Haiti, which is called “La Dessalinienne. The latter is perhaps one of the most beautiful anthems of the world.

Bambi does not know about you, but she enjoys listening to national anthems of countries of the world. Each anthem has its own story and beauty. We may associate it with either dramatic or more beautiful moments, like sport games. We may sing it on national days or… on unforgettable citizen ceremonies. We may perhaps try to have fun by playing it by ear or by notes. Anyhow, anthems are usually joyful and they celebrate unity. They are filled with both pride and love (this type of attachment is called patriotism).   

In Bambi’s mind, one of the most moving parts of the “La Dessalinienne” are those words of respect for the ancestors or forefathers. Words repeated more than once in different ways.

For Bambi, there is something refreshing in witnessing such respect. Collectively embracing the past is a wise way of envisioning both the present and the future. Indeed, honouring our ancestors and being grateful for their legacy, with all its imperfections, is a sign of respect not only for our history, but also for ourselves (at least collectively speaking).

It is Bambi’s hope that the national anthem of Haiti can make us stop to reflect and learn something new about ourselves, especially in our sad times of fragmented visions of our society/country and… where many seem to have lost their references points.

Regardless of the above, Bambi feels like ending on this note: “Merci en pile” [= Merci beaucoup]. Vive Haiiti! Long live Haiti!

The link below shows La Dessalinienne, along with an English translation.”

Victoria Day, national day of the Patriotes in Québec, official birthday of Canada’s Queen, or… time for Bambi to honour her friend Paul!

It is a long weekend in Canada (Bambi learned this only on Friday evening as she was too busy to realize that).

It is Victoria Day tomorrow.

In Québec, it is the national day of the Patriotes where this province pauses to honour what its people historically went through!

It is also the official birthday of Canada’s Queen Elizabeth (born on April 21, 1926). Bambi feels compassion for her because she recently lost the love of her life :(.

Regardless of the above, this long weekend marks the beginning of the summer season in our country ?. Summer season and a cold beer drank outside is perhaps one of the activities that unites us all, from coast to coast to coast.

Bambi has another reason to pause and celebrate today. She wants to celebrate her friendship with Paul (in heaven after he left our world at age 100).

Paul did not live longer enough to go through the pandemic… or to see the absurdity and violence behind any cancel culture attempt, especially when it targets his friend.

Paul was Bambi’s Flamenco partner for over four years. They proudly and happily danced together in Montreal when Bambi was a PhD candidate. They were lucky to be the students of their devoted teacher. They celebrated birthdays, graduations, and many summer seasons together, including this long weekend when it was his own birthday.

Paul was a proud Québecker, mixed with the beauty that comes from marriages of origins (French Canadian and Indigenous). Paul was compassionate, generous, talented, handsome, and INSPIRING in so many ways!!

He danced until his late 90ies (perhaps 94, perhaps 96?). He kept dancing and creating choreographies in his mind, even when he stopped dancing.

Funny moments were when Bambi used to arrive to that studio (4th floor of an old building) out of breath for having run fast out of her lab to arrive on time. Paul would be worried about her, asking her: Are you alright Bambi?

Once, he fell sick (one of the rare times). Perhaps a certain fatigue (from much dancing?!). Bambi went to the pharmacy the next day to find him good vitamins. When the pharmacist asked her why she was looking for that for her friend, she told him: “He is a bit tired”. His answer was: “But isn’t this normal at his age?” Bambi’s answer was a clear no, not for him ?!

When asked about his secret of happiness in longevity, Paul said: Accepting that each age is beautiful, perhaps a glass of wine per day ?, and… love. Yes, love with a big L! Paul loved his family beyond words (he took care of all his siblings until their death. Bambi often prays for him and his dear brother whose name is like her spouse’ name!). Paul’s amazing family (niece and her family) gave back love to him, honouring him until his last breath. Bambi and her spouse had the chance to visit them a couple of times over the past years. Every Christmas, they exchange best wishes for the new year…

Bambi misses you/loves you Paul, today more than ever. If she may, she would like to offer you two songs. The first is about the French language at the eve of your national day of Patriots (English translation here: https://lyricstranslate.com/en/la-langue-de-chez-nous-language-our-home.html):

The second song is… of course related to Flamenco ?!

In 1982, Germany won the Eurovision song contest with Nicole’s “La paix sur terre, c’est ma prière” [“Peace is my prayer or “Ein bißchen Frieden”]… This song by Messrs. Cara, Siegel, and Delanoë remains timely!

Bambi was 10 years old in 1982 (you can guess her age now ?).

1982 was the year where Beirut was under the Israeli occupation.

1982 came just 4 years after her aunt died under the Syrian invasion of Beirut.

1982 was also the year when Bambi’s grandfather (born in 1900) died, heartbroken from the death of his daughter.

The same grandfather married his beloved wife (Bambi’s grandmother whom she never had the chance to meet in life). She came from nearby Syria originally. Do you see the irony and absurdity of war?

Syria occupied Lebanon for 29 years.

Israel occupied Lebanon for 22 years.

Of course, there was also initially the Palestine Liberation Organization, PLO (or OLP in French).

There were many Lebanese fractions, all with blood on their hands.

There were massacres and there was hate.

There was also… and there is still the Hezbollah’s weapons, in addition to Hamas’ not too far away.

There is also a very powerful Israel on the military front.

There is an Iran that wants to become a nuclear (surely not peaceful) power.

There are also regional forces using this historical conflict for their own interests.

Of course, there are also leaders of other countries who just do not know what to do to help.

Some chose one approach. Others prefer another one.

Yet others prefer to rise above the conflict, supporting both sides and demanding peace.

And in the Middle East, we hear once again the same old song, like after the Israel-Lebanon (or rather Hezbollah) July 2006 war. Both sides “claim” victory, one “divine”, the other “military”.

All this whilst innocent people (including many children) have been killed and destruction is all over. How can this be a victory?

Plus, the Palestinian people remain vulnerable and without an official country to be proud of.

And the Israeli people still live worried about their safety or even fear for their existence.

And in Canada (at least in Montreal), the USA, and Europe, we recently saw pictures of passionate, and at times sadly violent, demonstrators who seem to have forgotten why their parents or grandparents left the Middle East. Didn’t they come to find peace in the welcoming host countries? So why are we bringing the problems of the Middle East here instead of fixing them there?

Despite (or given?) all this, Bambi will stop now to sing with Nicole her eternal, beautiful, song about peace (English transition here: https://4lyrics.eu/other/nicole-la-paix-sur-terre/):

ABC Net, RN Drive: “Seeking justice for Isaac, nine months after Beirut blast”

The above MP3 link was taken from ABC Net, thanks to RN Drive with Ms. Patricia Karvelas who interviewed Isaac’s mom, Ms. Sarah Copeland.

Bambi has several posts on Ms Sarah Copeland’s unimaginable life ordeal since the surrealistic Beirut explosion when she tragically lost her adorable son Isaac (as you can see at the end of this post):

https://www.abc.net.au/radionational/programs/drive/justice-for-isaac-in-wake-of-beirut-blast/13352848

For those who do not know Ms. Sarah Copeland, as a UN staff member, she came all the way from her native Australia to be posted in Beirut and devoted her time/energy to the Centre for Women at the UN Economic and Social Commission for Western Asia, known as ESCWA. Thanks Ms. Copeland for your service… and sorry for your loss :(!

Imagine that when the surrealistic Beirut port blast took her son (Isaac)’s young life, she was pregnant (she got injured herself too…). Moreover, she was only three weeks away from leaving Beirut to return back home in order to give birth to her second child!

Bambi can only imagine one little drop of the ocean of the sorrow of Isaac’s parents, Mr. Craig Oehlers and Ms. Sarah Copeland. Once again, she salutes the courage of Isaac’s mom (now 9 months after the blast) in going public to seek justice for her son AND for all the victims of the Beirut explosion, including other children. Thank you Ms. Copeland!

As you can hear her own words, no Lebanese politician contacted her (and the other families of the victims) to offer their condolences or words of comfort following the surrealistic tragedy that destroyed half of Beirut! They all knew about the ammonium nitrate at the port, up to the top of the pyramid of governance…

Will an “independent” international investigation, as discussed in the segment above, help shed light on what truly happened on August 4, 2020 in order to bring a form of justice to the grieving families? And to the Beirutis as well as the whole people of Lebanon… and indirectly with them, the whole generous world (people and governments), including Canadians, who supported Beirut in one way or another. Don’t we all deserve the truth?

Even if these international investigations are truly independent (from politics) and efficient (despite the usual cumbersome bureaucracy), will their conclusion end up being as disappointing as the shy conclusion of the UN Special Tribunal for Lebanon about the assassination of former PM, Mr. Rafic Hariri?

In the meantime, the Lebanese local investigation (that was promised to take 5 days only, as Ms. Copeland reminded us), has seen several episodes of interference. Right now, this investigation is in the hands of Judge Bitar, described by many (including Senior Law Professors) as being both competent and decent. Good… but will he be able to “lead a truly independent, thorough investigation”? Bambi has raised this question in an earlier recent post in which she concluded with the following words: “… and may he be safe!”

To conclude this post, even if Bambi is lacking words now, she would like to send her love (and continuous solidarity) to Isaac’s family!

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There is something reassuring in… basketball!

With all the crazy, violent, or sad news in the world here and there.

With all the fast-moving marathons of justice in our world or… lives.

With all our concerns about our loved ones in our birth countries that are doomed with multiple crises and endless historic regional conflicts.

With updates from Bambi’ s dad who visited up to five pharmacies whilst one of his daughters consulted a sixth one in order to secure insulin and other critical medication for Bambi’s mom.

When Bambi called her parents in Beirut, it was refreshingly reassuring to learn that her mom was enjoying watching on TV a basketball game (between two national teams).  

For one second, Bambi felt that times, especially in the Middle East, were still stable and society healthy. No financial crisis. No pandemic. No threats of war. No concerns.

Yes, for a moment, she could imagine (and even “see” through the call) her cute mom in a state of flow, enjoying the present moment. She even happily shared with Bambi the basketball scores as they were unfolding.

For some of us, fun daily moments may be practising a sport, singing, spending time with loved ones, gardening, meditating/praying, watching a movie, writing, reading, doing a puzzle, cooking (this is not for Bambi!), or even perhaps cleaning one’s place (yes, it can be fun!), etc.

Bambi’s phone call to her parents made her day whilst filling her heart with reassurance.

To conclude this post on a cheerful note, “vive le basketball! Long live basketball” ?!

BBC: “Lebanon’s financial and economic freefall”

Lebanon is facing multiple crises, perhaps the worst of all (thus far) is its economic tragedy after the financial collapse on October 16, 2019.

For Bambi, almost all the Lebanese crises (minus perhaps the Covid-19 pandemic) seem to have one common denominator: “Those responsible have proven themselves to be irresponsible“. These words come from Nurse Hassan in describing to the BBC reporter the devastating impact of hyperinflation on people’s lives, including himself.

A short documentary worth watching… until the end.

Why does Prince Harry feel entitled to interfere in America’s democracy by criticizing its first amendment?

Is there anything more noble, not just in the USA but in the entire world, than the first amendment of the American constitution?

Here is its text that is almost sacred to our neighbours, the Americans:

The First Amendment provides that Congress make no law respecting an establishment of religion or prohibiting its free exercise. It protects freedom of speech, the press, assembly, and the right to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.” (https://www.whitehouse.gov/about-the-white-house/our-government/the-constitution/).

Well, while touring the international news about the Middle East, Bambi came across this article in the “Ouest France” (Google English translation follows):

https://www.ouest-france.fr/europe/royaume-uni/prince-harry/le-prince-harry-critique-le-premier-amendement-de-la-constitution-americaine-et-cree-la-polemique-7264571

A quick English translation… Thanks to Google translate:

https://translate.google.com/translate?sl=auto&tl=en&u=https://www.ouest-france.fr/europe/royaume-uni/prince-harry/le-prince-harry-critique-le-premier-amendement-de-la-constitution-americaine-et-cree-la-polemique-7264571

Bambi did not believe her eyes at first. She read more about it from different sources. Here is a video of it, if you do not believe her:

To conclude this post, with all due respect to Prince Harry, Bambi cannot help not to be sarcastic today: She wonders if he is getting paid for such public statements and, if so, by whom? Alternatively, he may be perhaps living in a different era in his mind… Unless, deep inside, he would like to move to another country where citizens suffer from the absence of the First Amendment?

Please stay tuned for Bambi’s (or Dr. Azar’s) chat with a giant of a colleague, Dr. Jordan Peterson… until then, what an amazing “We are the world” by Mr. Damien Robitaille!

Bambi would like to thank Dr. Jordan Peterson for his invitation! She is honoured and humbled…Thanks also to his kind and talented staff. Stay tuned everyone…

Bambi also thanks Dr. Mathieu Bock-Côté for having tweeted her story last week! Thanks to him, she now discovered this fantastic performance by Mr. Damien Robitaille :). Bravo Mr. Robitaille for your incredible talent, now serving to supporting Africa!

When will Ms. Céline Dion’s dove (“colombe”) finally deliver its “message of peace, love, and friendship” to the people of Palestine & Israel?

Bambi and her father-in-law sarcastically joked once whilst debating international politics, saying that the endless Israel-Palestine conflict will perhaps end when the children of her grand-children will grow up.

This would have been a piece of good news for the entire Middle East, and the world, even if it seems far in time. However, sadly, the meaning of their sarcasm is that this conflict may be endless given that Bambi and her spouse do not have kids.

Yet, even if the news from the Middle East are too sad, Bambi insists on remaining hopeful, as she has always been in life. Yes, she still has faith in humanity, despite the unfolding tragedy.

To conclude this post, it is Bambi’s hope that Ms. Céline Dion’ dove would fly as high and fast as possible to reach the Middle East, sharing her “message of peace, love, and friendship”. She also prays that wisdom and restraint will prevail in Lebanon, as this country does not need another war in relation to this historic conflict.

May the memory of the victims be eternal…

A beautiful picture from a Beirut-based journalist and Happy Birthday wishes to a dear cousin in Montreal!

First, here is Ms. Roula Douglas’ beautiful picture and thanks to her for publicly sharing it (Bambi stole it :))!

Isn’t Lebanon beautiful?
A picture publicly shared by Ms. Roula Douglas. Good for her for taking the time to “enjoy the moment”, despite the multiple crises!

This being said, Bambi is quite busy now yet she remains connected in her heart to loved ones wherever they are!

Talking about loved ones, well a dear cousin of Bambi is celebrating her birthday today in Montreal. Happy Birthday to her :)!

To conclude this post on a musical note, here is a song for you. Bambi has fond memories of us dancing together to it at that beautiful family wedding, which joined the fun of both Italian- and Lebanese-style celebrations of love. Well, if she may, your cousin will dedicate this joyful song called “Mabrouk” (= Congrats!) to you. As you know, it applies to all happy events/outcomes, whether in the short- or long-term. These include, but are not limited to: birthdays, anniversaries, graduations, artistic or other performances, positive health outcomes, successful business outcomes, purchased products (e.g. house, car…), etc, :). May the year ahead of you be simply merry!