Month: September 2025

All her life, Bambi dreamed for peace in her birth country, in the Middle East with justice for the Palestinian people. Today, at age 53, her dream is still the same: healing, love, justice and peace for both Israel and Palestine. May this peace extend to her birth country, the region, and the entire world.

Bearing the above in mind, will the recognition of Palestine by Canada today be more than a symbol? Is it too little, too late now? Or will this recognition serve to reward terror instead of fostering peace? Bambi is neither a political expert nor a military one. She just knows that there are still hostages being held captive and Hamas is still threatening to harm them (https://tinyurl.com/um7bfrmt). She also knows that Israel is still conducting a harsh war in Gaza. Some call it genocide. Others think it would be suicidal to stop. Yet others, like the Hezbollah leaders, talk about a concept of greater Israel. Yet others criticize Israel for its military acts in Lebanon and in other countries, including Qatar. Tragically today, five people died in a drone attack on a Lebanese village in the south, including three young American-Lebanese siblings. Bambi cannot even dare to imagine one drop of the shock and sorrow of their parents (https://tinyurl.com/y83kbk95).

So what does the statement of Mr. Carney really mean? And what would be its implications domestically? And what about Canada’s negotiations with the USA on the economic front? Why this sudden recognition now on a Sunday? Was this a negotiated decision among Ottawa lawmakers or was it a unilateral decision (only arranged with the UK and Australia)? Why now and why not much earlier, like Haiti and many South American countries in 2011, including Brazil (https://tinyurl.com/mr3x46zx).

Who knows what will happen next? Chances are nothing will change to the daily suffering of the people of the doomed Middle East. Until time will tell what might happen or not in the longer term, Bambi will end this post with a song dedicated to the Palestinian people (minus Hamas!). If she may, she also wants to dedicate this song to the people of Lebanon, Syria, Israel, Qatar, Yemen, Egypt, Iran, etc. Yes, all the innocent folks of all these nations. Everyone deserves peace.

The fall season is magical with its red, orange, and yellow colours.

May the beautiful colours brighten your days, filling you with both warmth and freshness.

As for the new year, if you happen to be soon celebrating it, may it bring peace, love, healing, and hope.

On Rosh Hashana [New Year], a delicious bread called Challah is usually eaten. Same for apples dipped in honey in order to symbolize the wish for a fruitful, sweet year.

May the new fall season or the entire year be filled with peace of mind and gratitude.

As described on YouTube in French (and thanks to Mr. Google Translate for the English version): “Artists are joining forces to support the Quebec-Africa Project. Together, they demonstrate the power of music as a tool for solidarity and change. 💛🎶 Their participation in this song reflects the commitment of a community ready to reach out, across borders, to build a better future. 🌍✨ “Quand on est en amour” by Patrick Norman – a collective anthem to love, unity, and hope, performed by more than 150 artists around the globe”.

For those of you who are interested, an English translation of the lyrics can be found here: https://tinyurl.com/3zh4vczw . Long live love. Long live friendship among persons and nations. Bravo for this beautiful international collaboration!

Bulgaria arrested Mr. Igor Grechushkin (https://shorturl.at/KHJoe) who had been questioned in Cyprus back in 2020 at the request of the Lebanese officials (https://shorturl.at/WvI5Z).

Mr. Grechushkin’s abandoned ship initially brought the ammonium nitrate that detonated at Beirut port on the doomed August 4th 2020. The outcome was a catastrophe beyond imagination: the destruction of a large part of the Lebanese capital, the killing over 200 innocent people, including toddlers, and the injury of over 6,500 people. Some of the latter are still hospitalized. Can you imagine?

It is unclear what will happen next. If Bambi understands well, her birth country seems to have 40 days to seek Mr. Grechushkin’s extradition to question him, according to the Bulgarian law (https://shorturl.at/BK9fq).

Regardless of the next legal steps or the role played by this man (if any), the Lebanese top officials had seven years to act responsibly to prevent this man-made tragedy. Sadly, they did not. All those who knew about the ammonium nitrate closed their eyes. Some even closed their hearts in the days following the tragedy. Will the delayed, and at times attacked, justice be served one day?

As a reminder, it is the heart-warming Lebanese people themselves who rushed to Beirut, from all the regions, to support their fellow citizens and to help them clean and heal. They filled the gap left by their government. They literally became the government.

It is also the generous and compassionate international community who rushed to Lebanon to help. Volunteers and workers, from all over the world, provided medical aid, food, other essential material, and shelter. They validated the traumatic experience of Beirutis. Many citizens of the world, including Canadians, generously made donations or found creative ways to raise funds.

Similarly, many world governments helped, including Canada. Thanks to everyone.

May lessons be learned from this tragedy to prevent future ones in Lebanon and elsewhere. May the memory of all those who died be eternal. Much love to the families of the victims and to those still in the coma or permanently disabled. Most significantly, may justice finally be served and in a fair way, without scapegoating OR excluding anyone (no one is above the law).

Halifax, Nova Scotia, has a population of about 500,000 residents, including 1,500 Jewish Haligonians who are served by three synagogues (https://tinyurl.com/4swbwutf).

According to the CBC, two synagogues, along with a centre for Jewish teaching, were vandalized overnight in Halifax. In the article that Bambi just read, you could see the disturbing swastika symbol and a senseless graffiti claiming that “Jews did 911” (https://tinyurl.com/ms9hvfx5).

Of course, the swastika or the Nazi hooked cross (“Hakenkreuz”) is unacceptable, especially that its use is meant to intimidate and instill fear within our fellow Canadian Jews. By extension, it means within all of us as Canadians.

As for the other absurd graffiti, it seems to refer to one of the common conspiracy theories about the 9/11 tragedy. Who knows? Maybe you are someone who believes the latter. Endorsing one idea is one thing (i.e., our thoughts are free, one must recall). However, using ideas stemming from a false theory (i.e., not based on facts, not testable, not falsifiable) in order to frighten others is another thing. A line has been crossed here. Sadly, in Canada, this line has been crossed several times over the past two years. It is highly worrisome.

To conclude this post, Bambi strongly denounces vandalism to places of worship and shootings in schools in other provinces, as per older posts shown below. All Canadians deserve to live without the fear of intimidation, including the Jewish community members. Indeed, both Halifax and Canada at large deserve to be free from antisemitic graffiti.

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Regardless if it would be called “hateful” or “terrorist”, following investigation, NO to VIOLENCE in Canadian schools, including the Jewish school for girls in North York which was re-targeted again

Once again, no to violence against Canada’s Jewish community in Toronto and Montreal!

Mr. Eli and Ms. Michal Tsurkan: bravo for advocating for your daughter’s safety and for calling for respect and kindness to all, including New Brunswickers of Jewish Israeli origins

Bambi does not want the evening to end without highlighting the “Positive Thinking Day”, which is meant “to promote the power of positivity and the impact this simple act can have on your life” ((https://tinyurl.com/2ard799c).

Thinking positively is a conscious choice to embrace an optimistic mindset in which we treat ourselves with utmost kindness (like we would treat a friend), nurturing enriching thoughts and fostering our continuous well-being. To achieve the latter, we can indulge in both self-compassion and even self-forgiveness, as needed. We can practice gratitude, which involves a conscious effort to put the emphasis on the goodness, that is all the positive experiences in our lives. We can also nurture supportive relationships while liberating ourselves from unhealthy ones. Alternatively, we can manage difficult relationships by setting more efficient boundaries to protect our well-being. We can set goals for ourselves and enjoy achieving them in baby steps. Essentially, we create and keep fostering a “positive” mindset in our own ways.

This being said, there are moments in our life journeys where we may need a pat on the back when it comes to positivity. We might search for encouraging sayings or look for inspiration by a meaningful person from our family or social circle. We may take time to consult, self-reflect, read a book, nap, listen to music, sing, exercise, dance, spend time in nature, practice mindfulness, pray, cook, and/or clean the house.

What strategies do you like to use to cultivate your positive thinking? Is music part of them? If so, and if you wish, please share with Bambi your favourite song. You may wish to do it as a comment on this blog or more privately. As far as she is concerned, she will leave you now with a few uplifting songs [at least for her : )]. Happy Positive Thinking Day!

Extreme activists in Halifax succeeded in making the opening of the Tennis David Cup take place behind closed doors (https://tinyurl.com/umkvtyj9). As a result, and sadly, Canada’s team did not have fans supporting it indoors when it played against the team of athletes from Israel.

Similarly, the Israeli tennis players are performing in our country under hostile circumstances. Unfortunately for them, they did not get to experience the hospitality and kindness of Maritimers, the true tennis lovers, because of a few anti-Israel activists who may not even care about this sport.

The same scenario took place miles away in Montreal where a group of extreme activists “urged the Mayor to exclude Israel cycling team from Grand Prix Cyclistes” (https://tinyurl.com/mrab57ps).

Behind the ocean, in the old continent, counties like Ireland and the Netherlands are stating that they will boycott Eurovision 2026 if Israel participates again (https://tinyurl.com/5n7js6nx).

How sad to see politics hijacking sports and musical events. Why are we penalizing artists and athletes because of the actions of their government? Plus, who told those activists and politicians that these specific singers and cyclists support the Hamas-Israel war?

Would/should we eventually exclude from international events countries like Syria (a former dictatorship or a current Islamist-leaning government), Qatar (playing all sides politically or maybe even involved in funding Islamists), Lebanon (for being the country of the Hezbollah that fought against some Syrians and against Israel)? What about Turkey, Armenia, Azerbaijan, Russia, Ukraine, Iran, etc.? What about Palestine now or in the future? What about this or that country? Where does all this stop? And why should it start in the first place?

Instead of the above, how about if we ONLY let musical notes speak in the Eurovision competition and athletic skills have the final say in sport events? Why can’t we be both professional and civilized with teams from all countries, including Israel? Why can’t artistic and sport international competitions serve as spaces for interactions, and dialogue, for peace?

Of note, Bambi is expressing this opinion even if Israel is currently re-occupying her birth country. Canada is VERY far from the Middle East in terms of geography. Why the extremism in activism then? Why do we let ourselves be controlled by activists, especially that the Halifax police, RCMP, and ICIS (Canadian secret services) stated that “they were not involved in Davis Cup decision” (https://tinyurl.com/746bck9k)?

In a few hours, it will be the 24th anniversary of the September 11 tragedy in which about 3000 innocent people lost their lives, mostly in New York, but also in Pennsylvania and at the Pentagon (https://tinyurl.com/37wf9brc). Of note, about a month ago, three more victims were identified in New York City, including a young man and two women (https://tinyurl.com/y3w22ndv). All the terrorists (19) also died (https://tinyurl.com/37wf9brc).

This horrific and unforgettable day took place over two decades ago. Sadly, our world is still filled with stories of terror and suffering, in addition to unsolved conflicts here and there, and ongoing senseless wars.

Talking about wars, after checking on her dear cousin and his family in Doha, Qatar, yesterday (https://tinyurl.com/3umyckmr), Bambi decided to listen to the news of the region from out of her birth country, Lebanon. The radio station she found online happened to be talking about a port being renovated 35 years after the end of the Lebanese civil war. Bravo for the positive news.

Of note, this port is located in a city called Jounieh, North of Beirut. Bambi’s family escaped Beirut to this port from which they took a small boat to Cyprus. That was in 1989, a year before they migrated to Canada.

At the moment Bambi turned this Internet radio station on, one of the speakers celebrating the inauguration was mentioning a tragedy that happened at the port in 1989 (a year before the end of war). At the time, civilians were rushing to the boat in almost total darkness, without much sound, for safety reasons. Despite this, the shelling began suddenly. Missiles hit the water surrounding the boat and the small harbour quay. A horror story occurred to one of the escaping families, as mentioned on the radio.

Ironically, as mentioned on the radio, this family was also called Azar, like Bambi’s family name. These parents lost their two daughters on the spot. Can you imagine? Listening to the story made Bambi immediately have goose bumps while shedding a couple of tears. Indeed, this war memory is even more meaningful to her for the following reasons: although the radio speaker did not mention the names of the siblings who died, Bambi will always remember that one of them was called Roula, like her own sister (the other kid was Maia). For some reason, her dad either got stuck in Lebanon or maybe had to return there before Bambi’s mom and sisters. Whatever the precise context of the story, Bambi may have forgotten some details. She only recalls that both her dad and mom used to listen to a radio station on which they provided the names of the injured or dead people. This is how her dad heard about the deeply sad tragedy of the two Azar daughters, one of them was called exactly like his own daughter. He got worried, especially that they did not mention their age on the radio. Indeed, they were younger than his daughters.

Wars are ugly. Violence is senseless. And what to say about terrorist attacks? They are unacceptable, even after two decades or more. May the memory of all the victims be eternal. Much love and continuous healing to the surviving families. Same for all those affected by the 9/11 tragedy, back then or across generations.

To encourage her brain to keep waking up early this morning, Bambi read the latest news on her phone while still lying in bed.

She was deeply sad to learn about the six innocent people who were cruelly killed at a bus station in Jerusalem when two attackers opened fire on them and on a bus. There were also several injured people; perhaps twenty, many of whom in critical condition (https://tinyurl.com/ymuux9au).

Bambi immediately reached out to a dear friend in humanity and faithful reader of this blog. Thank Goodness, she and her loved ones are safe and sound. As for the victims of this tragic shooting, whomever they are, may their souls rest in peace and may their memory be eternal. May all those who were injured survive and heal.

When will the latest cycle of senseless violence end in the bloody Middle East? When it is not innocent civilians dying on this side of the conflict, it is innocent civilians dying on the other side of this endless conflict. Enough absurd violence, fear, bloodshed, and tears of grief.

For God/G-d/Allah/No Gods’ sake, enough please.

Beirut-based Yuri Mrakadi is highly creative and filled with talent.

This being said, our world is sometimes too small. Indeed, Mr. Mrakadi happens to have gone to the same school as Bambi (he was a classmate of one of her sisters). Regardless, he has a very beautiful voice. Many of his songs are deep. Others can be quite funny or even sarcastic. He seems to love to sing in the Standard Arabic language, even if some of his songs are also expressed in the Levantine, or Lebanese-Arabic, dialect.

Mr. Mrakadi’s song, which is featured in this post, was composed in 2024. Bambi just came across it on YouTube. Yes, she is just one year behind Mr. Mrakadi’s fans. Not too bad for the dinosaur that she is sometimes :). Although this song’s lyrics are in Arabic, they include the English word “toxic” (for toxic love). Since Bambi had no clue how to say “toxic” in her mother tongue, she asked her clever online friend Mr. Google Translate. He taught her, or rather reminded her, that this term could be “Samma (female version) or “Sam” (male version). The latter literally means “poisonous”, just like in English.

As a reminder, a toxin is a substance (by extension, a communication pattern or a relationship) that can be harmful. In extreme cases, a toxin can lead to not just illness, but also to death.

Of note, a “toxic” relationship (e.g., love, friendship, family, professional, etc.) may have key unhealthy ingredients related to conflict management, competition, and most likely also a need to control or to manipulate. These ingredients, or signs, typically take time to show, which may be months or even years (https://tinyurl.com/2u8wejzu). This is why it would be wise to take our time to get to know someone, or to observe patterns of toxic behaviour or communication, before getting intimate or committing too fast.

Last but not least, before sharing Mr. Mrakadi’ “Toxic” song, Bambi will leave you with a quick translation of its lyrics, thanks to Mr. Google Translate: “Toxic, your love is toxic. Poison runs through my veins. Toxic, even you are toxic. But with you I live my life., Every time you sting me, I bleed in the dark. And from death you revive me. Toxic, your love is toxic. A rose in the desert is calling. What kind of poison are you? It seems love isn’t enough. I became toxic. Poison runs through my veins“.

To conclude this post, may Mr. Yuri Mrakadi as well as you, dear readers, be enjoying healthy and uplifting relationships. May you be happy and peaceful.