McGill University Convocation: Had you been the parents of the student who spat on administrators would you consider her behaviour rude or heroic?

Bambi just read in India Today (https://shorturl.at/zz6Br) about the McGill graduating student who spat on the Dean and another faculty member while waking on the stage to get her diploma. Her motivation is apparently what she wrote on her sign: “Divest from Death“. By death, she meant Israel. A couple of years ago, this sign could have been about BLM or Climate Change. Today, it is about boycotting Israel or divestment from Israeli institutions, including universities of this country.

Whether the Dean and the professor truly received her saliva on them (luckily this did not happen during the coronavirus pandemic) is irrelevant here, despite the minimization of the incident by the university administrators. With the encampment protests on the university’s private property, the latter have seemed to be coward, maybe resistant, or maybe also limited in action by the Mayor of Montreal’s apparently favourable attitude toward the demonstrators or by court decisions, etc.

The irony is that a few homeless people have joined them in the encampment. Cleverly, they thought the city and the police will leave them alone now. They finally feel protected. Bambi learned the latter from TVA News two days ago (https://shorturl.at/ogxDz). The other related irony is that, in his column of May 16, 2024, Mr. Richard Martineau joked by giving homeless people the following advice: “Message to the homeless: if you don’t want the makeshift camps you set up all over the city to be dismantled, raise a Palestinian flag above your tents”. In other terms, a Palestinian flag would make them acceptable by the authorities or untouchable, so to speak. It turned out that there was truth in his funny piece advice.

This being said, Bambi is reporting the above while finding it deeply sad to see the misery of homeless people as well as the tragic suffering of the innocent Palestinian people (paying the price of both the actions of Hamas on the tragic October 7 and the harsh yet expected response of Israel, while being used/abused by those pretending to care for them). She happens to also see the absurd entitlement of some of Canada’s protesters and this is just an example. Of course, thankfully, she also sees that many genuinely care from a human perspective (not through a woke or a conformist lens).

To come back to the story of this graduating student, Bambi finds it sad and worrisome to think that our higher education system is producing graduates with such an impolite attitude or behaviour. One day, this lady and others will become the leaders of our society and country. She hopes that they will gain more perspective, wisdom, and diplomacy in the future. Of note, she is saying so, regardless of the cause du jour. This time, this incident is about boycotting Israel. Tomorrow about what?

To conclude this post, Bambi will allow herself to borrow the wise words of the late grandma of her brother-in-law. She used to say: “Even Jesus did not rally all the people around him when he came to the world: some believed he was the Messiah. Some did not“. This means that any topic or story will result in some people cheering for it and others condemning it (and many others indifferent or without any opinion). To illustrate the latter phenomenon, Bambi will share two comments by India Today’s readers (https://shorturl.at/zz6Br): the first was “Take away her degree. Don’t tolerate this. Shameful gesture needs to be punished“. The second is “Great for the students who have the integrity and courage to stand up against zionazism, unlike the Modi”. And you, what do you think of such ways of protesting or expressing a political opinion, regardless of the latter? Is this expression healthy and wise? And, if not, what could have been done alternatively or elsewhere?

Isn’t Mr. Joe Ashkar’s new song “I miss Beirut” fun to listen to?

Yesterday, Bambi listened to her favourite Lebanese-American radio station while at work. She discovered a Lebanese singer, called Mr. Joe Ashkar, and his recent joyful song about Beirut. She enjoyed listening to this melody. She was able to find its nice Youtube video clip, which may be perhaps a bit cliché at its end with a sort of a spiritual hint of mosques and church bells all united in calling for the celebration of Beirut. However, the images are accurate. They show the downtown of Beirut with some of its beautiful places of worship. Mind you, in some areas of Beirut, it is not uncommon to notice a wall being shared by a church and a mosque (on one if its sides, it is the former. On its other side, the latter).

Of course, Beirut-born Bambi is biased in this post because she misses her loved ones in Beirut. Nevertheless, Mr. Joe Ashkar is right: the capital of Lebanon is charming. Thus, people miss it and want to re-visit it. As Ashkar’s song goes, “we dream of a new Lebanon where we can sing and rejoice to be back. We want to be happy. We want to live. We want Beirut to sing with us… I miss Beirut so much. I miss its boys and girls, along with its parties“.

Happy spring/summer to all of you, especially to the five readers who recently shared with Bambi their excitement to travel to Beirut in the coming weeks. Be safe and enjoy!

How do you show care?

To what extent do you genuinely, and thus consistently, care for others, whether your close ones or people in general? In other terms, do you care to connect with others in a kind or human way?

Now, what about yourself? How well do you know yourself? Do you currently feel connected to your inner values and to whom you truly are? Do you respect and love yourself? Do you know how to forgive yourself after mistakes? Do you respect others and generously care for them without losing yourself in the process? If so, to what extent are you currently taking good care of yourself? And what about your life in general: do you care to keep loving it and living it to its fullest extent, despite its challenges, past or current losses, and throughout your journey of self-growth?

If you answered yes to at least one of the questions raised above, the theme of care may be of interest to you. You may be perhaps even amused to know that care happens to be today’s theme. Yes, June 7 has been proclaimed by God knows whom (hopefully someone who cares for us :)] as the World Caring Day. If you are like Bambi, you may wonder what is so special about the World Caring Day? And do we really need such a day if we truly and consistently care for others?

Anyhow, it seems that the World’s Caring Day “shines a spotlight on all the ways we connect and show each other how much we care. Afterall, we should always take time to celebrate the millions of acts of caring we see. All acts of caring, whether big or small, are important. Caring is continuous and happens every day through compassion, support, kindness and understanding” (https://shorturl.at/xfs1B).

Of course, as highlighted above, there are so many ways that can show our care for both ourselves and for others. We can teach others how to treat us through our values, such as self-respect, and our healthy boundaries in our relationships with them. Some of these ways may be tiny gestures like appreciating the present moment, whatever it is, and being grateful. Some other ways may be a smile or a sincere hello to someone on the street or saying hi back in an elevator. We could be considerate with total strangers, neighbours, or with people we may have lost contact with. Of course, care could be bigger acts like standing up for others or concretely supporting them or being there for them in their times of joy as well as sorrow.

All this being said, with much “care”, Bambi will stop here to leave you with three French songs meant to celebrate the people we love (two of them are sub-titled in English). May you enjoy taking care of yourself while expressing your humanity by caring for others.

Canadian Armed Forces: “80th Anniversary of D-Day”

80 years have passed since June 6, 1944. Time flies, isn’t it?

As described by History.com (https://shorturl.at/541yp), “D-Day was the name given to the June 6, 1944, invasion of the beaches at Normandy in northern France by troops from the United States, Canada, the United Kingdom and other countries during World War II. France at the time was occupied by the armies of Nazi Germany, and the amphibious assault—codenamed Operation Overlord—landed some 156,000 Allied soldiers on the beaches of Normandy by the end of the day“.

Thanks to all these soldiers for their unforgettable service and sacrifice.

Mr. Christopher Tin: isn’t his “Baba Yetu” song (the Lord’s prayer in Swahili) sublime?

Bambi is grateful to the reader/friend who emailed her a grandiose song by Mr. Christopher Tin (featured in an earlier post shown below). In turn, with his permission, she is posting this musical masterpiece on this blog for your own pleasure.

For those of you who are not of Christian culture or faith, you may not know what is the Lord’s prayer. The latter was taught by Jesus to his disciples. It goes likes this in English: Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name. Thy Kingdom come, Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

As for the Swahili language, according to Britannica (https://shorturl.at/ReZ9K), it is “a Bantu language spoken either as a mother tongue or as a fluent second language on the east coast of Africa in an area extending from Lamu Island, Kenya, in the north to the southern border of Tanzania in the south (The languages form a subgroup of the Benue-Congo branch of the Niger-Congo language family)”. Of note, Swahili is greatly influenced by the Arabic language (https://shorturl.at/ReZ9K).

Bearing the above in mind, along with Mr. Christopher Tin and the arrangement by Mr. Derek Machan, the song and video were made possible, thanks to several highly talented artists (as per the description of the YouTube video below). Bravo and thanks to all of them!

Concordia University: how do vandalism and intimidation bring justice to the Palestinians?

Bambi learned from French (https://shorturl.at/eaMT3) and Canadian (https://shorturl.at/1c7U5; https://shorturl.at/mhEUb) media articles about the vandalism and intimidation that happened at Concordia University, in the so-called name of the Palestinian cause.

Indeed, a group of about 20 masked demonstrators occupied a building on campus for about an hour, chained its doors, and “considerably” damaged walls and glasses with graffiti. The police was called by the university administrators. It did not have to make any intervention though, as these so-called demonstrators left on their own.

Why do such demonstrators think that they can free Palestine by chaining university doors in Canada? If they are truly convinced by their demands, why are they resorting to intimidation, instead of effective communication, and why are they hiding their faces?

Thank Goodness, Québec Higher Education Minister, Ms. Pascale Déry, said a clear NO to this violence (https://shorturl.at/mhEUb): “C’est assez! Des actes inacceptables que je dénonce vivement. Une fois de plus, j’en appelle au calme. Il existe tellement de moyens de s’exprimer sans verser dans l’intimidation, l’incitation à la haine et le saccage dans nos campus” [“Enough is enough! Once again, I appeal for calm. There are so many ways to express ourselves without resorting to intimidation, incitement to hatred and vandalism on our campuses“].

Will these radicalized demonstrators, whether true students or not (and the organizations funding or endorsing them) listen to Minister Déry this time? If not, what’s next not only at Concordia University, but in all our institutions of higher education?

“I Lift My Eyes”/Psalm 121 in Arabic: bravo to Ms. Abeer Nehme and Mr. Christopher Tin (from “Old World”)!

By pure serendipity, Bambi just came across a musical masterpiece. She could not help not to share it with you immediately. The song is in standard Arabic with English sub-titles. She hopes you will enjoy it as much as she did.

To begin with, here is a list of the talented artists behind this beautiful performance (taken from YouTube): “Composed by Christopher Tin Performed by Abeer Nehme with Christopher Tin and the Angel City Chorale “I Lift My Eyes” is a collaboration between Abeer Nehme and Grammy-winning American composer Christopher Tin, and is a setting of Psalm 121 in Arabic.  It’s the main menu song for the strategy game ‘Old World’, by Mohawk Games. Director – Tayo Amos DP – Matthew Wilder Producer – Mackenzie Lyle, Tayo Amos Production Company – Sapelo Productions 1st AD – Brian Robau  1st AC / 2nd Unit DP – Ariana Hoshino 2nd AC – Luka Stojcic Steadicam Op – Lars Struck Drone Operator – JP Isaacs Percussionist – Jamie Papish Grip – Davy McCall Grip/ Swing – David “Danny” Fern BTS – Kyle Sykes, Dallas Crane Makeup Artist/ Hair – Ciarra Pringle Wardrobe Coordinator – Tosha Hartzog Editor – Seamus Finnegan Colorist – Sohil Vaidya Production Assistants – Rogelio Salinas, Alazar Aklilu, Mackenzie Ross Red Dress Designer – Mariane Bechara Backing vocals: Angel City Chorale (Sue Fink, dir.) Duduk: Sandro Friedrich Percussion: Jamie Papish Strings: Budapest Scoring Orchestra Engineer: Rich Breen Mastering Engineer: Gavin Lurssen Music Producer: Christopher Tin”.

Of note, in the last scene of the YouTube video featuring the song in question, one can read the following: “For Lebanon“. These words moved Bambi’s heart, especially on another day of an absurd ongoing war, in addition to the same political and economic impasse. Yes, tragically, two brothers who are shepherds, lost their lives today (https://t.ly/IgmwA). May God know how to comfort their family in facing its double tragedy.

To conclude, before leaving you with the song, here is an English translation of PSALM 121 (taken from YouTube):

I lift up my eyes to the mountains—

where my help comes from

My help comes from the Lord,

the Maker of heaven and earth.

He will not let your foot slip—

he who watches over you will not slumber;

The Lord watches over you—

the Lord is your shade at your right hand;

the sun will not harm you by day,

nor the moon by night.

The Lord will keep you from all harm—

he will watch over your life;

the Lord will watch over your coming and going

from now until the end of time“.

Mr. Jean-Pierre Ferland: touching moments from his funeral

Today, the “nation of Québec” (to use the words of its Prime Minister, Mr. Jean-François Legault) said good-bye to Mr. Jean-Pierre Ferland with a moving state funeral (government organizing website: https://shorturl.at/LBcvk; CPAC streaming: https://shorturl.at/uQouN).

Even if Bambi left Québec 20 years ago, Québec still lives in her. Indeed, this morning she was busy driving between Sackville, Chediac, and Moncton. Even if she could have spent more time out of town, she preferred to rush back home to watch Mr. Ferland’s funeral online. It was her small way of paying tribute to this French-Canadian legend.

Even if Mr. Jean-Pierre Ferland’s music will outlive him, his death closes a chapter of Québec’s history. Bambi did not want to miss this symbolic moment. Appreciated by all for both his talent and sweet personality, Mr. Ferland was known as the “Petit roi” [The Little King]. And what a cultural monarch! He was an inspiring writer (a productive poet) who wrote over 450 songs and released over 30 albums. Thanks to CPAC and City News for sharing this impressive information.

Ferland’s funeral included amazing tributes by family members, colleagues, musicians, friends, politicians, and priests. It was fully attended and we could see the moved faces of known artists as well as politicians (municipal, provincial, and federal). One thing is sure, everyone is a fan of Mr. Ferland.

Of note, all the eulogies were beautifully expressed. All the singers who performed Mr. Ferland’s songs were extraordinary (the CPAC link above shows them all). This being said, there were two performances that ended with standing ovations at the cathedral. One of them was the extraordinary Ms. Ginette Reno singing Un peu plus haut [A bit higher] (https://shorturl.at/ldowf). The other performance was a heart-wrenching yet beautiful duo of Une chance qu’on ça [Thank goodness we have each other] by Ms. Melissa Bédard and Ferland’s spouse, Ms. Julie-Anne Saumur. Bravo (https://shorturl.at/C2npz)!

In addition to the above, Bambi was touched by Mr. Claude Dubois singing Si Dieu existe [If God exists] (https://shorturl.at/lRJ28).

To conclude this post, thanks to the government of Québec for honouring Mr. Ferland with a state funeral. Many thanks to his beautiful family for generously allowing us to publicly share their sorrow. Lots of courage to them. As for Mr. Jean-Pierre Ferland, may his soul rest in peace and may his memory be eternal.