Ottawa, Canada: Stabbing of a 70-year-old Jewish woman at a grocery story is deeply troubling. Thank you Mr. Fred Klein for your insights

A couple of days ago, Bambi was deeply saddened when she learned about the stabbing of a 70-year-old Canadian Jewish woman, in front of a kosher section of a grocery story, in the Canadian capital (https://tinyurl.com/5zaptdt6).

Her very first thoughts went to this critically injured innocent lady (may she be healing well now), her family/friends, customers/staff of the grocery store, and by extension her community of fellow Canadian Jews, Ottawans, and all Canadians.

Of course, Bambi also thought of all her Ottawa-based Jewish friends who may be going through fear now because of this story.

Later when she read more details related the story, she also thought of the 71-year old man who committed this crime (https://tinyurl.com/2e2ct29d). How odd, DEEPLY disturbing, and sad to learn that the stabber is of the same old age range of his target. You must be really unwell, into the business of blind hate or serious mental illness, to stab someone you do not know at a public place simply because of being associated with a group you dislike.

Bearing the above in mind, Bambi approached her friend and blog reader, Fred Klein, and invited him to an interview related to this tragedy. Mr. Klein (or Fred) happens to have regularly shopped his groceries at the same place where the stabbing occurred. He also happens to be of Jewish ancestry, like the lady. Because of the latter, she believes he can contribute to this post. Thanks to him for his time on this long Labour day weekend.

In the interview shared below, Bambi’s questions are in Italic and Fred’s answers in bold. As usual, this post will end with music. The chosen song is called “L’Envie d’aimer” [The Desire To Love]. The highly talented singer is Mr. Ko Eun Sung. The piece was originally performed by the late and beloved French artist, Mr. Daniel Lévi in the musical comedy by Mr. Élie Chouraqui and Mr. Pascal Obispo, “Les Dix Commandements” [The Ten Commandments]. May love prevail in Canada and everywhere.

INTERVIEW CHAT

Hello Fred. Bambi would like to extend her heart to the senior lady who was stabbed, to her family, community and to you especially, her dear friend as well as all our other friends in the beautiful Ottawa. As you can guess, she is very troubled and concerned by what is happening in Canada in terms of criminal behaviour or unkind antisemitic behaviour. What are your own thoughts about the following:

1. What comes to your mind following this tragic event at the grocery store when a 70-year old lady was stabbed by a 71-year old man in front of the kosher food section?

“What came to mind was the 2015 attack on a kosher food market in Paris. There, it was reported that the attacker chose a kosher food market as it would be an easy target for finding Jews. Last week’s attack in Ottawa was very similar in my mind because I know that Loblaws location has a well-stocked kosher section. So far as I know, it has the largest kosher section of any supermarket in Ottawa and was my regular grocery when I first moved to Ottawa. The same shopping centre has a bagel bakery that rivals the quality of Montreal’s, so it’s usually a great spot for Ottawa’s Jews and I have indeed bumped into people I know there more than once.

The local reporting was disappointing because they would not make the link between the kosher offerings and the victim’s Jewish status. They did report she was Jewish but wouldn’t say how they knew that or how it could be otherwise different from an attack on any other 70-year old woman.

2. Are you concerned about either your own safety or the safety of your/our fellow Canadian Jewish citizens?

“I’ve been in the region twenty years now and yes, I routinely evaluate locations and events for their potential as a “terrorist draw” due to the call for global intifada and the naive left-wing values that are used to indoctrinate young people. I sometimes avoid Parliament Hill and am suspicious of the U. Ottawa campus. One needs to check not just the weather but the news also to see where the hot spots might be. I’ve been harassed in Hull and Montreal but don’t have much faith in the police nor justice system, who have themselves harassed me“.

3. Given your professional expertise (Librarian), how can we define semitism and antisemitism? Zionism and Anti-Zionism to the readers who may not be familiar with all these terms historically or socially or practically?

“In my professional experience, I have written about been harassed in Quebec, Ontario and New York. I’m not an expert on Zionism, however, I was taught Zionism can trace its origins back to the Jews who were already living in Israel as of the 1800s or earlier, having made an informal return to the Holy Land following the Roman Empire’s expulsion of the Jews in the year 70 C.E. when the Romans salted the soil and made it unusable for agriculture. The Jews left Israel and settled nearly every other country since.

Significantly, Theodor Herzl crystallized the mounting feeling of nascent Zionism in his 1902 book Altneuland, which in German means “the old new land”. The fundamental concept in Zionism as I understand it is that Jews have wandered all over the world since their year 70 expulsion and should stop wandering and return to the one land where they belong, the land of their ancestors.

The Anti-Defamation League defines antisemitism as

The belief or behavior hostile toward Jews just because they are Jewish. It may take the form of religious teachings that proclaim the inferiority of Jews, for instance, or political efforts to isolate, oppress, or otherwise injure them. It may also include prejudiced or stereotyped views about Jews”.

Perhaps more information about Herzl and Zionism could be found in the links below”.

4. What could be some solutions to prevent intolerance or to foster a welcoming and truly inclusive sense of society for all? 

“Canada’s patchwork system of indifferent jurisdictions and competing interests does not foster much positive. Inclusivity and tolerance testing/training could be made a requirement for employment. People in public employment who fail the test must follow training. Canada could also become a safe haven for Jews, like Israel. These and other measures would require amendments to existing laws making Canada a “Judeo-Christian” country where Jews and Christians together will form the new majority and with the Charter existing to protect minorities. Personally, I would also reduce immigration in Quebec to zero for a hundred years and allow that province to resolve its identity problems while its component ingredients “cook” a while longer.

By comparison to Ontario where the police are quicker to prosecute hate crimes, a Jewish man in Montreal was attacked earlier in August but the judge has already suggested the accused may have had mental problems, i.e. the obvious hate issues are circumvented. Such “soft” positions can only lead to a lack of consequences for hate crimes. In Canada, the lack of federal involvement in policing is keenly felt. Think of other countries where one crime can incur both local and federal charges. Federal civil rights are one area where the United States does it better than Canada and is an area for vast improvement”.

References provided by Fred:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypercacher_kosher_supermarket_siege

https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/ottawa/this-isn-t-ottawa-outrage-grows-over-vile-grocery-store-attack-on-jewish-woman-1.5301751

http://totalbiblio.ca/being-a-jewish-librarian-working-in-the-government-of-canada/

https://www.britannica.com/biography/Theodor-Herzl

https://www.adl.org/antisemitism

Montreal: Why does the Israel-Hamas war trigger powerful emotions to the point of resulting in criminal behaviour?

Geographically speaking, Gaza is located about 5, 800 miles—about 9,300 km—away from Montreal, Canada. It would likely take two, or even three, airplane flights to get there. Yet, a 39-year-old Québecker got too passionate about the Israel-Hamas conflict that he torched an Israeli flag in front of Hampstead town hall, twice not just once. He even bragged about it on social media (https://tinyurl.com/5n72ynfc; https://tinyurl.com/58y6v5zk).

But, to begin with, why does the city of Hampstead still have the Israeli flag outside of town hall, one may wonder? It seems that this was the choice made by the Mayor et al. on October 7, 2023.

As a reminder, on the tragic 7th of October, 2023, a large number of innocent Israeli civilians were the victims of a horrible massacre: deaths (about 1200!), rapes, injuries, kidnapping from out homes or from a musical festival, and acts of indignity to dead bodies. The rest of the story is part of the current tragic history of a cruel ongoing war against Hamas taking place in Gaza, which has lead to: (1) surreal proportions of mass destruction, a shocking number of deaths (over 60,000!), awful injuries, suffering beyond words, famine, etc.; and (2) it is estimated that about 20 Israeli hostages remain alive in captivity (https://tinyurl.com/kkjdhecx).

To come back to Hampstead, its mayor claims that his administration did not receive any complaint. However, like anything else in this world, the gesture of raising the flag of Israel outside town hall is probably welcomed by some and unwanted by others. Indeed, it seems that there is a petition that has circulated among some residents, demanding the removal of the Israeli flag (https://tinyurl.com/bdhrd73r). Bambi is unsure of the precise number of those who dislike the display of this flag. Who knows? Perhaps there are residents who do not care, especially that we are used to seeing many flags displayed in Canada. From the media mentioned in this post, the (Jewish) young man who is behind the petition seems to be an articulate and peaceful fellow.

The question that Bambi cannot help not to wonder now is the following: why would a 39-year-old man who lives miles away from Gaza be passionate about the Israel-Hamas war to the point of resorting to criminal behaviour to make the Israeli flag disappear. Why can’t he be wiser, especially at his age? Why doesn’t he tolerate seeing—even if he dislikes it—this foreign flag? If Bambi understood well, this citizen does not seem to be a resident of Hampstead. Why couldn’t he ignore the Israeli flag when he walked in this neighbourhood? More significantly, why can’t he use, or keep using, democratic means to publicly express his anti-Israel opinion (e.g., writing, walking in demonstrations, or signing the petition)? What made him dive into maladaptive behaviour?

To conclude this post with additional questions, how does burning a flag in Canada support innocent Gazans? And how could the torching acts allow this man to keep supporting his cause, which seems to mean a lot to him? Last but not least, are the Middle East troubles worth having a criminal case with a long legal, financial, and psychological journey to defend oneself?

Happy Birthday Claire!

It is hard for Bambi to find words, in either French or English, to wish you Claire a Wonderful 96th Birthday! Thank you for existing in her and our lives. Thank you for the incredible inspiration, at so many levels, for your big heart, along with your sharp mind, for having enriched this blog with your sweet comments, and supported it when it was in danger. Bambi loves you so much and sends you her best wishes across the miles ❤️!!!

Lebanon: How to solve the Israel-Hezbollah’s catch 22?

According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, a catch 22 is “a problematic situation for which the only solution is denied by a circumstance inherent in the problem or by a rule”. In other terms, it is “an illogical situation, or a problem in which the solution is denied by the problem itself” (https://tinyurl.com/2542ske2).

To give an example of Catch 22, newcomers to Canada often hear the following statement while looking for a job: “oh sorry, you do not have the Canadian experience to have this job“. However, you need a (first) job to get the “Canadian experience“. Like many other folks, Bambi heard this statement upon her arrival to Montreal in 1990 several times. She tried to solve this catch 22 dilemma by naming it during a job interview with her prospective employer, manager of a maternity store at a mall. She did it as an answer to the question about her former sales experience and ended it by asking how to solve this? Would you dare take the risk of hiring me so I can begin to have the “Canadian experience” and grow through it? If you say yes, I am fully ready for the job. She immediately replied: “you are hired! When can you start. Is tomorrow morning, OK?”

Tragically, Lebanon’s issues are much bigger than a job offer to a 17-year old permanent resident. Indeed, this tiny yet resilient Mediterranean country is now facing the question of disarming the Hezbollah (in addition to other illegal groups). Hezbollah is strongly opposing disarmament claiming that Israel needs to leave Lebanon first since it is still occupying five hills in the southern part of the country (https://tinyurl.com/595utv74). At the same time, Israel is stating that it needs Hezbollah to disarm before leaving Lebanon: “If the Lebanese Armed Forces “take the necessary steps to implement the disarmament of Hezbollah, Israel will engage in reciprocal measures, including a phased reduction of IDF presence in coordination with the US-led security mechanism” (https://tinyurl.com/fw36p9h7), Bambi just read in the Times of Israel.

What a complicated and touchy catch 22 dilemma, isn’t it? It would be a bit easier had life been simple in the Middle East. But how could it be simple with the following conclusion of Mr. Naim Qassem, head of the Hezbollah: “We have many supporters who represent more than half of the Lebanese people, as well as influential political forces. All are united to protect the weapons and the Lebanese resistance. Anyone who wants to disarm us would be tearing out our soul” (https://tinyurl.com/595utv74).

So, what is next for Lebanon under the current circumstances, one may wonder? How could this dignified, and now hopeful, country achieve the goal of its overdue disarmament plan in a timely manner? Is it truly at risk of strife, as Hezbollah has claimed a few days ago (https://tinyurl.com/362u2rvr), or is it just a political game of bluff?

Many pending questions. Only time will tell what will happen in the Land of the Cedars, both in the short and longer term. Bambi is neither a military nor a political expert. She just knows that her troubled birth country deserves safety, peace, and prosperity. No more wars and violence. No more bloodshed and tears. Enough. Just enough.

Mr. Rudy Ayoub’s “real” dad is sweet

LA-based Rudy Ayoub is visiting Lebanon, it seems. His (real) dad does not seem to resemble the narcissitic character of his funny videos (played by Mr. Ayoub). Indeed, in the first short YouTube video, he seems to be a nice father who loves his son and encourages his creative work. Bambi wishes them wonderful moments together in their beautiful village of origin. Safe travels back home!

Life is all about transitions: who said that joyfulness cannot co-exist with sorrow?

Today is a day of bittersweet anniversaries of transitions.

A transition of love through a celebration of an unforgettable, beautiful wedding. Hello to Michael/Stéphanie and their ADORABLE baby. Happy second wedding anniversary!

A deeply sad yet existential transition from life to death… to eternal life. A continuous presence, stronger than life, but in an invisible way. Hi to Mama in heaven 💜.

Another life-death transition is also remembered with great respect. May the memory of Rony’s mom be eternal as well.

Thankfully, today happens to also be a joyful day of a chronological transition. Happy birthday Nayla, enjoy!

All these transitions of life and death have a simple yet powerful name called LOVE. Indeed, is there anything more uplifting in life than the love of family and/or friends?

MUCH love to Bambi’s dad (hero of love 💚!) and to her sisters et al. across the miles.

May mom keep watching over all her loved ones, especially dad. May we all keep transitioning through life with inner peace, a sense of trust, love, and hope.

Mr. Jack Layton: Remembering him with his inspiring message on love, hope, and optimism

May your memory be eternal, Mr. Jack Layton

For readers who may not be familiar with Canadian political figures, Mr. Jack Layton is described in the The Canadian Encyclopedia as follows: “John Gilbert “Jack” Layton, educator, municipal and federal politician, New Democratic Party leader (born at Montréal, 18 Jul 1950; died at Toronto 22 Aug 2011). Jack Layton, leader of the federal New Democratic Party from 2003-2011, headed the first NDP party to sit as Canada’s Official Opposition in the House of Commons” (https://tinyurl.com/bdh7htsr).

In a last, and most beautiful, letter to Canadians, the late yet unforgettable Mr. Jack Layton wrote: “My friends, love is better than anger. Hope is better than fear. Optimism is better than despair. So let us be loving, hopeful and optimistic. And we’ll change the world” (https://tinyurl.com/4eb9ejb7). Is there anything more uplifting and inspiring than those words, especially coming from a man of integrity and humanity in public service?

Mr. Layton strongly believed that “Canada is a great country, one of the hopes of the world“. We may or may not fully agree with his politics or vision for Canada. However, we cannot not have the utmost respect for him.

Thank you, Mr. Layton for your beliefs and principles. Canada, with the entire world, needs principled leaders like you. We call them statespersons and they can/do exist within any political party. Right and left. Centre. Maybe independent. All the latter become secondary when what matters the most is put first, namely the best interests of one’s beloved country.

Hezbollah: Does God need weapons?

Bambi just took a work break to read the international news, specifically from her birth country. She learned from L’Orient Today that a religious man, close to Hezbollah, said the following: “Hezbollah’s weapons are God’s weapons” (https://tinyurl.com/bdddpfcb). Wow, quite a statement, isn’t it?

To begin with, this statement was said in the context of a new—and overdue era in Lebanon, namely its disarmament plan from now until the end of the 2025 year. It seems that it was a sort of a public communication between two different religious men (https://tinyurl.com/bdddpfcb), one supporting the government’s move and the other resisting it.

Let’s recall that Hezbollah is military very weakened following its war with Israel since October 8, 2023 (when it dragged Lebanon into not just war, but also re-occupation). Yet, as a stubborn Islamist group, Hezbollah—”Party of God” in Arabic—wants to keep fighting (Israel) until the end of time. This despite its much restricted access to new weapons via the Mediterranean sea or the land, namely through the border with Syria.

If you are not familiar with the context of the Middle East, Bambi will share that religions are too important there (sadly). This even if some people do not believe in God and most, regardless of their beliefs, want a truly secular state system.

So if we happen to not believe in God, how can we swallow the Mufti’s statement that Hezbollah’s weapons are God’s weapons? And even if we believe in God, why would the latter need to have weapons? Isn’t the power of his beautiful, unconditional love enough?

It is hard to know if we should smile, laugh, or cry to such absurdity or cognitive distortion. Bambi is saying so even if she fully understands Hezbollah’s “resistance” to give its arms to the Lebanese authorities. By doing so, this militia would lose the remainder of its military superpower.

We miss you Mr. Jean-Pierre Ferland…

Mr. Joe Dassin: Honouring his memory with three of his most beautiful songs

How can Bambi miss the opportunity to send a grateful blink to heaven today?

As highlighted in her post of May 24, 2025 (shared below), the heart of Mr. Joe Dassin—the inspiring French-American singer-songwriter/guitarist—stopped beating forty-five years ago. This sad day was August 20, 1980.

Merci/Thank you Mr. Dassin for having existed. May your memory be as eternal as your beautiful songs, which clearly outlived you.

Celebrating Soft Ice Cream Day with a kids’ “Bouza” song!

Maybe you do not care, but today happens to be the National Soft Ice Cream Day.

First of all, “as of 2021, there are 20 ice cream days on the calendar including National Frozen Yogurt Day and National Frozen Custard Day. Most of them land in July which is also National Ice Cream Month” (https://tinyurl.com/3rceyfw7).

Second, the song featured in this post seems to be meant to celebrate “bouza” or ice cream in the Arabic language. Bambi admits that the latter sounds a bit silly for adults while being very cute for all, young and old. However, at the end of a long Monday, “silly” melodies are more than welcome. Indeed, she cannot stop listening to this song now, over and over, each time laughing hard. She is eager to share the short YouTube video, with its dancing characters, with her spouse to learn if he will find it amusing or boring.

This being said, and if she may, she offers this song to her dad now because he knows how to appreciate all types of “bouza”. As for you dear readers, may the ice cream melody put a smile on your faces :).

Long live ice cream in all its shapes, especially the delicious soft version!